1931 – 2024
Our loving husband, father, grandfather, great grandfather, brother, uncle, and friend Robert Stephen “Bob” Halander, quietly passed away on July 25, 2024 after 93 years of embracing life, family, community, and country. Born on July 21, 1931 in Salt Lake City, Utah, Bob was a man of profound integrity, character, and intelligence. Known for his dry wit and wisdom, he was a true Renaissance man who nurtured a deep passion for life and learning.
Bob proudly served as an Army medic during the Korean War, a role that exemplified his lifelong commitment to helping others. He loved attending the Illinois Institute of Technology before returning home to graduate from the University of Utah with degrees in Civil Engineering, Structural Engineering, and Architecture. Thereafter, he established a successful career as an owner of an architectural and engineering firm, leaving a lasting impact with his distinctive designs across 15 states. Bob leaves a legacy of academic, artistic, and professional achievements. His accomplishments are gifts to family, friends, and anyone lucky enough to encounter him on their path.
A faithful member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Bob served as a high priest, dedicating himself to his faith, family, and community. His personal interests were as diverse as his talents; he was an avid enthusiast of classic cars and classical music, enjoyed playing tennis, and was a talented artist, painting everything from scenic landscapes to abstract pieces.
Bob quietly assessed the needs of everyone around him – whether family, friends, or a stranger on the street – and his heart would compel him to fill the gaps whenever he could. He always was one of the first to show up anywhere in the country to help build a deck, craft furniture, make household repairs, plant flowers, or create a float for a parade. His compassion was also felt internationally, as he traveled to Africa to volunteer his skills in the building of a remote hospital for the people of Ghana.
He is characterized as a calm, empathetic, and gentle soul – yet a fierce defender of his family. He was incredibly accomplished, and yet extraordinarily humble. He taught through example, and his children and grandchildren also sought him out often for quiet counsel and to put things into perspective. He loved unconditionally, and “family” extended to everyone he opened his house and heart to – including the friends of his children and grandchildren. He had a wonderful sense of humor, and he could always see a rainbow in any of life’s challenges.
He loved spending quality time with his family. He talked often about his fond memories of spending time with the Berndt family at Bear Lake. He also cherished the annual camping trips to Mission Bay in San Diego with his children and grandchildren. His bucket list was completed on a Mediterranean cruise with Jennie’s siblings, with the highlight of the trip being the visit to the Sistene Chapel and the Statue of David.
Bob is survived by his wife of 46 years, Jennie Halander, his children, Matt Halander (Stephanie), John B Halander (Marie), Christin Robbins, Karen Kuipers, Ken Halander (Kristie), Robert Halander, Judy Pettique Black, and numerous grandchildren and great-grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his daughter Erin Halander and brother Jack Halander.
Family and friends are invited to gather at City View Mortuary at 1001 East 11th Avenue, Salt Lake City, Utah, at 10 am on Wednesday, July 31st. A short service will precede the procession to Mount Olivet Cemetery for interment. Post-interment, a gathering at City View Mortuary will offer a chance to share memories and celebrate Bob’s life over a light lunch.
Bob’s family would like to thank the medical team at the St. George Regional Hospital ICU for the amazing care that they provided with tenderness and skill while treating him with the utmost dignity and respect.
In lieu of flowers, consider a random act of kindness or an extra-long hug of a loved one in remembrance of Bob’s compassionate, generous, and loving spirit.
3 Comments
Bob was a kind and considerate person as well as a role model for me growing up. I feel very lucky to have known him and to continue my friendship with his son John. I have nothing but fond memories of my interactions with him.
Jennie and Rob,
I have such fond memories of your family as our next door neighbors for many years..
Bob truly enjoyed a happy and good life!
Thinking of you,
Carol Douglass (Felt)
I worked for Bob during the 80’s and early 90’s. He was my true inspiration in becoming a better Architect. He was a true professional. He brought me into the partnership for a short period of time of which i will always be greatful. He was a giving person always willing to lend you anything. I regret losing contact with him over the years. I will always think of him as my friend and collegue. I will miss him. Bob, you were the greatest.
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